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look, I thought feminism was stupid and we didnt need it most my life but then I realised I was only fed the negatives and had my view of the matter twisted by the media. Please research it, educate yourself then get back to your opinions free of outside influences such as the patriarchy. Ignorance isn't bliss, it's harmful.
I’ve had this blog since July of 2013. What sparked my interest into anti-feminism was actually an awful run-in I had on my main account. A feminist argued with me that being a housewife is demeaning and claimed that a woman who aspires to be one is utterly worthless. Other people agreed with her. I got hours of hate (some anonymous and some not) simply for expressing that I believe women shouldn’t be shamed for being housewives. The original woman even stooped so low as to tell me she hoped my future husband would die young so I wouldn’t be able to support myself.
Annoyed, I thought to myself that maybe I just ran into a few trolls. Okay, no biggie. I did educate myself after that. I read article upon article, blog upon blog, story upon story yet still couldn’t understand how first-world women think they’re oppressed. All I saw were feminists complaining about the wage gap (which has been debunked), rape (which is already a crime where the perpetrators are heavily punished…not to mention it isn’t a gendered crime), the patriarchy (spoiler alert: if we lived in a patriarchal society, women wouldn’t be allowed to freely whine on the Internet about how awful men are, and all of that “kill all men” merchandise wouldn’t be able to be sold/worn), I could go on and on. Hell, the most popular thing that have Tumblr feminists ranting this week is a video where some teenage boys named off things girls do that annoy them. If you have to nitpick and actively search for things online that offend you, you aren’t fucking oppressed.
Take your condescending bullshit somewhere else. I’ve read up on feminism enough to form my own opinions. My opinions are formed based on my past experiences and how I felt reading all of those articles/blogs/stories. It’s quite pathetic that your only comebacks are to “educate myself” or to “stop being influenced by the patriarchy” just because we disagree on whether feminism is necessary in first-world countries. If I tried to tell you that you needed to educate yourself on anti-feminism and stop believing everything the feminist hive mind said, you’d probably throw a fit. I’m not ignorant or harmful simply because I don’t agree with a certain movement. As long as I support gender equality (which, by the way, nearly every anti-feminist does), it doesn’t matter what movement I identify with. Get your head out of your ass.
are all these people slagging off feminism as it hurts their feelings really this narrow minded? It’s about addressing actual real contemporary issues, it doesn’t set out to hurt your feelings but if it does maybe that’s because you’re an asshole??
> actual real contemporary issues
Feminists on this damn website complain about three things:
1) Rape, which is already illegal in first-world countries and has been for years
2) Cat-calling, which, by itself, isn’t harassment— shouting a few words at someone may make them uncomfortable, but let’s remember that just because you’re uncomfortable doesn’t mean you’re being harassed
3) Blurred Lines, which is a mainstream pop song in which Thicke tries to convince a woman to leave her boyfriend/lover/whatever because she’s showing obvious signs of attraction towards Thicke
antifeminiist girls make me so angry. what the fuck is that men and women have different responsiblites.okay. but you still talk shit.
It makes you angry when women decide to choose what they think is best for themselves, eh? If they don’t worship feminism, it must be due to the fact that they’re a Conservative and have internalized misogyny. Yep, sounds like feminism in a nutshell.
But you are against feminism? Thus okay with misogyny? or do words no longer mean things anymore? Anti'Female Nism,'doi!
I’m against feminism, not feminists, which can be men or women. By your logic, since I’m against feminism therefore okay with misogyny, then anybody who is anti-MRA is okay with misandry. Do you agree?
actually ur wrong if its making fun of a race or something its not funny dont even TRY
What the hell are you talking about? I can only assume you’re getting upset over something I probably said 2 months ago.
when i talk about feminism with people (men) that don’t really know me i hear “are you a lesbian” a fucking lot and i am but that’s not the point the point is that these (most) people have the idea that women only matter when/if they’re fucking ‘em
…or they’re falling for the old “all feminists are hairy, ugly, man-hating lesbians” stereotype. It has nothing to do with them only thinking women matter if they’re having sex with them.
Those “baby lips” and “baby skin” make up products from Maybelline really bother/ unsettle me. They simultaneously infantilize grown women and sexualize little children and all in all it just seems like a really problematic idea overall.
The correlation is referring to the idea that a baby’s lips and skin are extremely smooth. Many women think it’s ideal to have soft lips and skin. Nobody is trying to infantilize women nor are they trying to sexualize babies, it’s simply a matter of advertising a seemingly ‘perfect’ goal.
i went into the feminism tag to find some awesome inspirational posts for international women’s day and it’s literally just full of a bunch of whiny fuckers talking about how much they hate women and tagging ‘anti-feminism’ and ‘feminist bullshit’ i s2g i cannot make this any clearer:
if you’re anti feminism, you’re pro misogyny
"Wahhhhh! I don’t care what ideology you support, if you don’t identify as a feminist then you must hate women!"
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