maybejustcreation:

ablogforblogging:

This guy sounds like a douche but if you choose to have unprotected sex with someone you can’t put all the blame on them for giving you an std.

He’s terrible for not disclosing but she could just as easily have gotten an std off someone who didn’t even know they had one.

guess what you fucking piece of shit

if someone has a STI and does not inform you of this prior to having sex with you, that is called not giving someone else informed consent. that’s sexual assault. she can LITERALLY PUT ON THE BLAME ON HIM, BECAUSE IT IS HIS FAULT. had she known he was unhealthy, she would have not had sex with him, but she didn’t know that because he didn’t tell her.

get your fucking victim blaming shit off this fucking post and off this earth holy shit

> They had mutual unprotected sex

> “that’s sexual assault”

Do you understand what sexual assault is?

If you don’t want to risk catching a STD, don’t have sex with random people from a site like OKCupid. In fact, don’t have sex with random people at all! This isn’t victim blaming, it’s common fucking sense. 

(Source: staysafeandaware)

I think it's too bad that you're anti-feminist because of what you think "it stands for." There's extremists in every situation. Condemning all feminists because of the extremist view is like condemning all Christians for those few who give them a 'bad name'. I know I won't change your opinion on the matter, but your thought that feminism is "completely unnecessary in first-world countries" is naive. You say you aren't attacking feminists, but taking the stance "anti" seems... overtlyaggressive.
Anonymous

I’m not against feminism because I dislike radfems or other extremists, I just think the movement has run its course and is no longer needed. Back when women didn’t have the same legal rights as men, it was important, and I’m grateful to the suffragettes who fought for women’s rights. The fact that feminists have now resorted to discussing things that aren’t about equal rights and could easily be ignored (cat calling, sexualization/representation in media, “rape culture”, etc.) should be enough to make you question whether feminism is truly needed in first-world countries anymore. I’m not attacking feminists, I argue against the modern feminist movement. But yeah, running an anti-feminist blog must be what makes me a pretty aggressive person.

Do you actually read anything I say on this blog? You have some pretty weird misconceptions about me.

soskyk:

im not about this whole women changing to suit their boyfriends ideals. nah. who even are you. where is your self respect.

If a woman changes to please someone else, she obviously cares about that person’s opinion and is capable of making her own decisions based on what she feels is best for her.

Years ago, the thought of childbirth grossed me the hell out. I imagined I would adopt children and everything would be fine. After I met my boyfriend and he expressed his earnest interest in having children, I was still pretty hesitant about having a child grow inside of me. Thinking about it still makes me feel weird, but you know what? Hearing how he looks forward to building a family with me excites me and makes me feel loved. I may still be nervous about all of the morning sickness and other symptoms that come with being pregnant, but I’ve completely changed my aspect on the whole situation. I can’t wait to give birth to two or three kids of my own with him, because I love him and I think it’ll end up making both of us even happier than we already are.

If this means I don’t have any self respect, so be it. Just know that it’s extremely hypocritical of you to tag this as feminism/imply you’re a feminist and then completely shit all over a woman just for doing things to please someone she loves.

  · This morning at work

deanne-the-arsonist:

Black guy: You know that’s a dudes car, right?
Me: Its whatever car I want it to be. I wanted it to be mine, so here we are.
Black guy: *laughs* Alright, alright. What kind of car is that, a Camaro?
Me: *internally rolls eyes* Its a Challenger

Why does his race matter? I don’t understand why you threw that in there.

  · A word about bronies.

tenaflyviper:

saintcheshire:

So I just got back last night from a brony convention in San Francisco. I was working a booth for a vendor friend, and let me tell you what happened:

We met a little girl who was there with her family. She got a button drawn at our booth, told us all about her favorite ponies, and was overall just too damn cute. She had an MLP lanyard filled with pins she’d gotten in the vendor’s room, and gave me a Fluttershy pin because she liked my cosplay. She ended up just hanging out with us for a while and bein’ super cute. We call her Babby because she’s 11 and precious.

The next day, she runs up to the booth, terrified, and asks if she can please hide under our table for a few minutes. Turns out a dude had been following her around the con all day, and tried to get her to come up to his hotel room. Alone. She tells us she thought he was okay at first because he was wearing an MLP shirt, but she didn’t want to go anywhere with him, and he made her uneasy. At one point, after she’d refused, he grabbed her arm in the elevators and tried to get her to follow him. She ran, and now she wants somewhere to hide.

We tell her of course, hurry her behind our booth and fucking station ourselves around her because she’s eleven years old and all of us are prepared to physically attack the human trashheap who tries to fuck with her. We’re all dressed up in wings and ears and we’re 100000% prepared to rip them off and launch across that table to defend this kid. Eventually this very large dude strolls by, very obviously looking around, and she quietly points him out to us. At this point I’m ready to set him on fire, but when I ask if she needs me to go report him, she shakes her head. She doesn’t want to get in trouble, or make anyone mad.

We see him a few more times over the course of the day, because he keeps meandering over to our booth and just casually looking around. Eventually he actually stops to take a flier from our table and asks us a question, and we coldly send him on his way. We start sending a coworker with Babby whenever her parents aren’t around and she wants to go check out artist’s alley or the vendor’s hall. Because otherwise she’s not safe. She can’t run around and freely enjoy a convention about a show aimed at her, because instead of being surrounded by peers she’s somehow surrounded by men who pose a threat to her.

My point here: this is why I fucking hate “bronies.” Because grown-ass men are flooding into a space carved out for children—often little girls—and are making it unsafe for them.

I met a lot of non-awful people there, of course. I met a lot of parents and older siblings. A lot of adorable little boys who were happy to empathize with female characters, and a lot of little kids who wanted a picture with cosplays of their favorite pony. I met a lot of people who were cool and nice and just liked cartoons. I met a male Pinkie Pie cosplayer with a Fluttershy lady-friend who juggled and spun plates and was happy to entertain kids, and were generally just really cool people.

But I also met a lot of skeevy dudebros. A lot of guys in fedoras loudly discussing sexual shit in a room with children. Guys who drew/sold/displayed really fucking inappropriate “fanart,” including gross bodypillows that had no purpose in a little kids’ toy convention. I met a guy who gushed with absolute glee about the pleasure he derives from “corrupting innocence.” I met a lot of people who wanted to take something sweet and nice for children and make it about THEM. A lot of guys who wanted to make it about their dicks. People who made it UNSAFE for the intended audience to even be in attendance.

So yeah. If you call yourself a brony, I’m prolly not gonna trust you. Because I’ve seen y’all in action, and I am not impressed. Frankly I’m infuriated. This is like a bunch of gross neckbeards swarming Disneyland and shoving kids out of the way so they can grope Cinderella, and finding nothing wrong with it because they think they’re entitled to it.

My Little Pony is a really cute show with a lot of nice messages for kids, and gross brony shitweasels are trying to fucking take it from them by force. And I will fight them.

Because this totally wasn’t just made up for notes.  You know, like the claims of sexual harassment that allegedly took place at Everfree Northwest of the voice actresses of the Cutie Mark Crusaders that the VA’s themselves openly debunked on Twitter as being complete lies.

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Or the person that claimed their four-year-old that they apparently LEFT UNATTENDED ON THE INTERNET was magically able to utilize a search engine, and understood the context of an alleged image that is psychologically impossible for a four-year-old to grasp.

Also, you said above that this fictional child told you not to tell their parents, and then you claim you got their permission to post about the incident on Tumblr, which would imply that you did tell them (but apparently, only when it was convenient for you to do so, and not when the child would have actually been in danger).  On top of this, police take reports of attempted child abduction VERY FUCKNG SERIOUSLY.  If you really did report an incident like this, they would have been on the scene immediately, regardless of “lack of evidence”.  No legitimate police officer would just ignore a call about an attempted kidnapping and assault of a child.

You know what’s really repulsive here?  People who deliberately make up overwhelmingly obvious stories about the sexual harassment of a little girlYou’re literally the one creating a disgusting, sexual story about a child.

If you’d like to consider it, I invite you to read through this, and then ruminate a little on how exactly anyone is “taking anything away” from anyone else.  You’re also welcome to read through this, and perhaps rethink your decision to make sweeping generalizations about large groups of people just for a little internet popularity.  Oh, and before you try to play the “You must be a morbidly obese, cishet, white, male neckbeard pedophile in a fedora!” card that people like you are so quick to throw around, I must regretfully inform you that I’m a 31-year-old French/Lebanese woman from the midwest that grew up with My Little Pony in the 80’s, and whose wisdom that has come with age and experience has made her pretty goddamn adept at detecting bullshit.

(Source: princess-nietzsche)

rugermegan:

antifeminism is literally an antiwoman agenda, yo. feminism literally brought equal voting but y’know we never ever needed feminism. what has feminism done for us beside y’know, every single progress that has come in our society. you like that domestic abuse is punishable by lie? that women are considered people instead of trading pieces. you can thank feminism, you bad oatmeal cookie.

…I don’t think you understand that most anti-feminists are pretty much only against the third wave of feminism. You know, the wave which hasn’t accomplished anything noteworthy but instead blames every problem they have on society or the (nonexistent in first-world countries) patriarchy?

If anyone was wondering where feminists-oppress-me went, he remade over at feminists-trigger-me. I know some people followed both of us, so go ahead and follow his new blog if you enjoyed seeing him on your dash!

princess-feministe:

egalitarians-do-it-better:

princess-feministe:

anti-feminists seem to keep bringing up the “all men are rapists” statement they say all feminists believe. ok. give me one feminist who says that. and not just some random feminist blogger/grain of sand in the beach that is tumblr, but a feminist who is recognized with a following population who enforces this belief regularly. n o b o d y  

"A commitment to sexual equality with males is a commitment to becoming the rich instead of the poor, the rapist instead of the raped, the murderer instead of the murdered." -Andrea Dworkin

“You think intercourse is a private act; it’s not, it’s a social act. Men are sexually predatory in life; and women are sexually manipulative. When two individuals come together and leave their gender outside the bedroom door, then they make love.” -Andrea Dworkin

“Men are distinguished from women by their commitment to do violence rather than to be victimized by it.” -Andrea Dworkin

dworkin’s life was one filled with abuse and misfortune which makes me think she wasn’t that mentally stable. she’s a self-proclaimed feminist, but many feminists, including i, disagree with her. she believed that all sex is rape. using that logic, she didn’t think all men were rapists, she believed everybody was. she did, however, believe that women who liked porn, wore makeup, exercised publicly, were all victims of men. she definitely was not in the right state of mind. try a feminist of this century who isn’t dead.  

You asked for a widely known feminist who follows this train of thinking and I provided you with quotes from a famous feminist. It doesn’t matter if you or “many feminists” don’t agree with her. She is a famous face of feminism, and she’s a prime example as to why people DO think feminism is all about hating men/thinking they’re all rapists/etc. This is what you were asking for in your original post, wasn’t it?

But hey, since my example isn’t good enough for you and you’d like someone who’s still alive (although I don’t see why that really matters since Dworkin died only 9 years ago), Susan Brownmiller stated the following: “Rape is nothing more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear”.

princess-feministe:

anti-feminists seem to keep bringing up the “all men are rapists” statement they say all feminists believe. ok. give me one feminist who says that. and not just some random feminist blogger/grain of sand in the beach that is tumblr, but a feminist who is recognized with a following population who enforces this belief regularly. n o b o d y  

"A commitment to sexual equality with males is a commitment to becoming the rich instead of the poor, the rapist instead of the raped, the murderer instead of the murdered." -Andrea Dworkin

“You think intercourse is a private act; it’s not, it’s a social act. Men are sexually predatory in life; and women are sexually manipulative. When two individuals come together and leave their gender outside the bedroom door, then they make love.” -Andrea Dworkin

“Men are distinguished from women by their commitment to do violence rather than to be victimized by it.” -Andrea Dworkin